'Real Housewives of New York' season 7 episode 12 recap: 'Lord of the Manor' - ladies head to Turks and Caicos

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This week on "The Real Housewives of New York," the ladies went to Turks and Caicos for some much needed relaxation, Ramona Singer started off the trip on the wrong foot, and Bethenny Frankel tried to talk to Sonja Morgan about her choices and behavior. 

The ladies arrived in Turks and Caicos and Ramona immediately ran around the house looking for the best room for her and Sonja. She immediately claimed what she thought was the best room, while the others looked on in disapproval. 

"I didn't realize this was Pamplona, the running of the bulls," said a very annoyed Bethenny. "It was like 'Supermarket Sweep'." 

Ramona tried to explain her actions, saying that everybody knows that she and Sonja always room together. 

"Everybody knows what? That you are the lord of the manor?" Bethenny snapped back.

She told Ramona that she's going backwards just like Benjamin Button and that her 5-year-old acts more mature than her. Carole Radziwill pointed out that all the rooms were exactly the same. 

Later, Ramona apologized for her behavior but ignored Bethenny's request to swap rooms. 

In their room, Ramona told Sonja the reason why she was being so difficult — the last time she came to the Caribbean was four years ago to celebrate her vow renewal with Mario. Sonja confided to the camera that Ramona's old memories were flooding back and making her sad. 

The ladies regrouped, and talk turned to whether Sonja did or didn't flirt or got intimate with some other women's boyfriend, and Sonja denied it. Everyone looked as if they weren't convinced, so Sonja turned to Bethenny for comfort.

Sonja said that she didn't expect her friends to bring up things about her that they knew were untrue, and at this point, Bethenny decided to tell her what's going on. 

"You have been going through a very stressful time in your life, and you have the right to lay on the floor and start crying," Bethenny began. "So you have been drinking, a lot, and so have I. I'm not judging you. I'm talking real you." 

Sonja didn't seem to understand and reasoned that to cope with what she's going through right now, she has to go out sometimes and party, but she doesn't do it every night, and she certainly does not drink in front of her daughter nor does she drink in the street. 

Bethenny started getting annoyed that Sonja wasn't hearing her and told her that it's important for her to listen to people. Sonja accused her of giving credibility to what others were saying, and that's when Bethenny lost her cool and yelled at her to shut up. 

"Do you think Bethenny is getting through to her?" LuAnn de Lesseps asked.

"Absolutely not," Ramona replied. 

"The Real Housewives of New York" airs Tuesdays at 9 p.m. on Bravo.